Lithuanian women are unlike anything you have ever come across – they are amongst the most beautiful, elegant, intelligent, and all around awesome girls you will meet, but they have their cons.
Today, I am going to share with you my opinion on Lithuanian women – what do they like, how are they in relationships, where to meet them and a lot more. It’s up for you to deice if it is a good idea to date them or not.
To be honest, I don’t guarantee that I can give you a definite answer. I could, however, tell you about what they are like. You decide for yourself if it’s worth it (I kind of still think it is).
Lithuanian Girls Are Curvy(er)
I don’t mean the obese, ‘body positivity’ activist curvy, of course. Lithuanian girls, unlike the other Baltic women, do have some curves. If the more boyish figures of Latvian girls are not your thing, head over to Lithuania!
Overall, the women of Lithuania are just more naturally feminine. They tend to have delicate face features, let their hair grow out (and they have the best hair in the world), and they flaunt their curves.
These are confident women that don’t strive to go for the “anorexic” type of perfection that some media tries to impose, while not going to the other extreme of “I’m overeating because fat is beautiful”.
The only term I can use to describe them is – natural. It’s difficult to find women that are as natural as Lithuanians are today!
Where to meet Lithuanian girls / women?
My top recommendation for meeting them is a premium dating place like International Cupid.
Here, you will find heaps of natural, real women that are actively looking for a relationship. No time wasting, wondering if she has a boyfriend or not or if she likes you or not. She answers – she’s interested. Easy as pie.
With over 180 active profiles when I wrote this article, you don’t have thousands to choose from as it is the case of other countries – but it’s 180 ladies more than none. (Note: the numbers can change, of course, but I can only guess that they’ll only go up)
You really only need one, and they’re all absolutely amazing, like all Lithuanian ladies I know.
Plus, by joining a premium website, you get a bunch of advantages: not only that the competition is way lower than on free websites (or out there in clubs), but you also show them that you’re not a bootstrapper by paying for the service. You know what you want – she knows what she wants, this is the perfect match.
So go on and click the big red button below to at least give it a try / test run. I am sure you’ll be very satisfied!
The One Huge Advantage To Dating Lithuanian Women
I am going to try and make this sound as non-offensive as possible, because, yes, I am not trying to offend anyone (Lithuanian women will ALWAYS have a special place in my heart).
But these girls are kind of desperate. Where they live, the female to male ratio is ridiculously off: just 86 men for every 100 women (source).
There are simply not enough men for these stunning modelesque creatures to date, so for being a male, you’re already at a huge advantage.
Sure, it doesn’t mean that they will settle for a low quality individual. These are high-value girls that are amazing and they know it and they’d rather be single than date a creep.
Speaking of high-value, let’s recap what that even means for the average Eastern European girl vs. the average Lithuanian girl:
1. Most Eastern European girls love to feel protected and well taken care of. They play the vulnerability card all too often and guess what, it does work to get them a masculine man.
Lithuanian girls, on the other hand, are nowhere as gullible. They are pretty and smart and they know it. And they also know that not all guys have the purest of intentions.
High-value men don’t play games or memorize pick-up lines – you will learn that lesson pretty quick as you are dating Lithuanian women!
2. The gender disparity in most Eastern European countries drives women to be more appreciative of good men taking an interest in them.
Even though Lithuanian girls also struggle with finding a decent male, they will die before they show the tiniest sign of desperation.
3. All Eastern European girls have this fundamental shyness about them. They often overcompensate for their insecurities by sporting flashier, more revealing outfits, like women in Bulgaria do, for example.
Lithuanian women are much more subtle in their clothes/makeup/hair choices. They are still feminine, just not as outrageously put together some others are around the world.
Dating Lithuanian Girls
There is a lot of emphasis on education in Lithuania, but science and technology tend to get the most attention.
Unlike other Eastern and Northern European countries, Lithuania does not encourage language learning as much. You will instantly notice that finding English speakers is much more difficult.
Most of the younger people speak some, but definitely not enough for your witty pickup lines to work (but using pick up lines is not that great anyway).
You have two ways out of the language barrier situation.
One would be to learn Lithuanian, or Russian at least. Both are pretty tough languages so it would not be worth it for a short trip. If you plan on relocating in Lithuania, though, taking up Russian would be one of the best decisions you have ever made.
The other way to escape the ‘we literally can’t communicate’ problem is… body language. It is universal and also I have noticed that Lithuanian people mostly flirt through body language.
Obviously, don’t make her uncomfortable. If you feel that she is interested though, go ahead and step into her close personal space.
Lingering touches, speaking in a low voice and leaning in, even having your hand around her waist as you speak are all great ways to flirt.
And, from my humble experience, they are what supercharges the attraction-tension and turns a simple conversation into an exciting interaction.
You Will Have Some Competition
You might have noticed a trend in most articles we do about women in the Baltic region. The guys are few, they drink a lot, smoke a lot, cheat, and sometimes they are even physically abusive.
I have to tell you that Lithuanian men are definitely a step above that. Unlike many other countries, Lithuania can boast some very handsome guys who are also these smooth talking experts in seduction – a.k.a. competition for you.
The one thing you can do is appeal to her ego (without moulding yourself to her expectations, of course).
Make a genuine effort to know her instead of showering her with cheap compliments. Yes, she knows her eyes are pretty and that she has a great figure. But you would be surprised at how few guys ask about her childhood/passions/career expectations etc.
Call me old-fashioned, but unless you strictly want a one-night stand, compatibility will matter more than looks anyway.
Explore it in the early stages of dating Lithuanian women – you will be doing yourself a favor while melting her heart at the same time.
Fun Times With Lithuanian Girls
So do these confident, driven, beautiful women ever have fun? Yes, and you will find the nightlife in Lithuania exceeds your expectations.
Although the country was a part of the Soviet Union, it is very Westernized at this point. Which means that the house parties and the bar hangouts to show off your new outfit (which are so popular in other Eastern European countries) are not what a typical night out looks like.
There are plenty of great clubs in Vilnius and even smaller towns have a buzzing nightlife. Beyond the clubbing scene, Lithuanian girls also like to keep busy overall.
You will not find them spending their free day under the covers watching Netflix. Most women in Lithuania (and most people in general) are all about getting the most out of life.
They love exercising, traveling, going to concerts and other fun events, dancing, exploring art galleries etc. Which is absolutely awesome, if you ask me!
There is always something happening in Lithuanian cities – even small places like Trakai – and people take full advantage of these events. It’s a very open, outdoorsy culture (in spite of the low temperatures).
Never a dull moment when you are dating Lithuanian women. Or in Lithuania in general. Take full advantage and bring out the fun date ideas. Dinner and a movie is such a cliché anyway.
Beware The Babushkas!
This one is not about the girls, it is about their mothers, grandmothers, aunts, great aunts etc.
Dating Lithuanian women can be tricky because the older generation is not all that accepting of foreigners.
Families in Lithuania are very protective of their children, especially of their daughters. Besides, most families just have one kid. So there you have the situation:
- She is their only child
- And a daughter
- AND you come from a place of completely different culture
Expect some reluctance to trust you from their part.
The old women are also really into gossiping (as most Eastern European babushkas are). Chances are, your Lithuanian girl has to deal with people whispering about her relationship on a daily basis. Not everybody is super enthusiastic about dating a foreigner.
Some would say she is renouncing her culture and traditions to be with you, that you will not be an equal partner, that you two can’t actually even be in love because you don’t understand her on a fundamental level.
You can choose to believe this or you can choose not to.
Either way, it will probably be true to some extent. Dating abroad has its unique challenges. An obvious one would be language – I am a firm believer that you can’t truly get to know somebody before you can speak in their language.
Bi/Multilingual people literally change personalities when they switch languages. But does this have to kill your chances of a great relationship with a Lithuanian girl? Nope!
Dating Lithuanian Women Long Term
Casual flings aside, long-term relationships require more than your utter admiration of her looks (and hopefully brains).
Lithuanian girls are very straightforward so they will let you know if they see any future in the relationship. If they don’t, they will probably dump you. Harsh reality.
Anyway, my biggest tip for dating Lithuanian women is to figure out your plan for the relationship very early on. Dating sites for singles abroad would let you put that in your profile – whether you are willing to move or not.
Think about it and don’t become invested in the relationship before you are sure you are compatible in this aspect.